Spin Talk Listener Dilemma- My Friend's BF Is Cheating On Her!

Spin Talk Listener Dilemma- My Friend's BF Is Cheating On Her!
Rachael Ryan
Rachael Ryan

4 May 2018

What would you do in our listener's situation?

Hi Lauren,

So a girl I have known for years, since we were in school together, is going out with one of the guys in my circle of friends. I was never really that close to her but have gotten to know her a lot more as she has been with the guy for a few years now. I would consider her part of the group and all the girls get along very well with her. In the last few months I’ve heard from the other guys in the group that he has cheated on her a number of times. I decided to stay out of it because it is none of my business and I am still friends with the guy too. But I have now seen it for myself, him kissing another girl on a night out and I feel awful for keeping it to myself. The guy knew I saw, and said to one of the other lads that if I said anything to her that he would just deny it. No one else in the group wants to get involved so are all staying out of it and keeping their mouths shut. I really don’t want to be the one to cause drama and get involved in someone else’s business, but if I was in her situation I would want to know. I’m also afraid that she’ll be annoyed she wasn’t told sooner as it has being going on like this for months. He seems to have no intentions of ever telling her. I don’t know what to do. Should I stay out of it?